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The backlash…quapissssssssssssh

I’ve made a mistake. How silly of me. Women’s abuse isn’t important. How naive of me — democracy is about equality, about sharing the rights granted in the Constitution. So of course women’s rights are no longer something to consider — I mean they’re already achieved in some pretty paper in some high office in […]

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Stigma and sex

Of ten women interviewed in Kenya for a television documentary, the majority of them would rather contract HIV than fall pregnant. Despite being openly promiscuous, and or regularly having unprotected sex, they say that they trust the men that they sleep with. They regularly use the morning after pill (MAP) to avoid becoming pregnant, and […]

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Why women say no to sex

I had a horrible flashback yesterday of this terrible sociology course that I took while at university. The course material and lecturer were stimulating enough, and the course was focused on gender, so it was really right up my alley. However, each session my temperature and the acerbity of my tone would slowly rise as […]

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Is murder sometimes ok?

Imagine a scenario where you have murdered someone without ever believing you could, or without ever wanting to. Nevertheless, you have done it. You have done it and by some lucky chance, nobody knows. Or at least, those who do are too chicken to say so. What do you do? Who are you? South Africa, […]

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If Haiti were HIV

It is most certainly a humanitarian crisis. Thousands dead. An impoverished nation battling to deal with the human carnage left behind. An inadequate health system to provide the care they need. A nation shaken to its core. But here I don’t speak about Haiti. Here I speak about us. South Africa has been shaken to […]

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Do you recognise yourself?

Would you do something great if you knew nobody would ever know? Would you find the cure for cancer and share it without putting your name on it? According to many philosophers (Hegel being the most adamant on this subject) we don’t do anything unless we are going to get recognition for it. We want […]