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Thoughts on (not) wearing a bra

This afternoon I did something quite radical. It’s not the sort of thing I would usually do, not at all, but for some reason I flung caution to the light north-easterly breeze and went ahead anyway. This afternoon, I walked around outside, in daylight hours, without wearing a bra. It felt … wrong. Not only […]

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Can women parallel park?

Cape Town has the mountain. But Joburg has parking. Ja, ja, scenic splendour and all that, but do not underestimate the significance of the fact that living in Joburg generally does not require the ability to parallel park. Sure, there are suburbs like Greenside and Parkhurst (why is there never parking in Parkhurst?) where parallel […]

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The digital hall of mirrors

The other morning I discovered that I no longer had 590 Facebook friends. I had 589. As you can imagine, I was devastated. Who had unfriended me? And why? What dreadful thing had I done to prompt such a drastic move? My thoughts circled through a range of possible explanations. Had somebody deleted their profile? […]

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Who else is sick of these ads?

It struck me in the Sandton City parking garage of all places. Revelation is normally not associated with the area in front of the pay stations below the Fountain Court — usually one is too busy swearing because the machine keeps rejecting your R20 note — but Sandton City sells space on its lift doors […]

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The comfort of things

I have a lot of stuff in my office. Even by the standards of the creatives in the cubicles up the way, there’s an inordinate amount of clutter and colour jostling for the attention of anybody who happens to pass by on the way to collect their printouts or send a fax. There are books, […]

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Births and endings

Something struck me the other day. I almost never talk to children. In fact, the last conversation I had with a child was when I was alone in Sydney, and but for what I read on other people’s blogs and in the status updates of Facebook friends, their lives are mysterious to me. I have […]