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Rugby’s top 20 coaches of all time

Stephen Jones is a Welsh journalist who has been the rugby union correspondent for The Times and The Sunday Times for more than 20 years. He was twice named sports correspondent of the year by the Sports Journalists’ Association. He is noted for his controversial and often provocative views, in particular his anti-Irish and anti-New […]

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Missed moments of humour

The other morning I was sitting on the loo in our apartment on the 22nd floor in downtown Shanghai, cursing a decadent evening of German eisbein, sausages, sauerkraut and Long Island iced teas. I heard a shifting noise and looked at the window. A Chinese gentleman was peering at me through a crack in the […]

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It may seem like gloating, but…

It has been four months since my last post. Having just closed out the past semester – by far the most difficult of my short academic career – I am slowly re-emerging and connecting with current affairs and the social world around me. My students, those I taught this past semester and over the past […]

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Male caregivers need support too

I thought I had made a good point. I was talking to the scriptwriter of a television series interviewing me on the topic of raising emotionally intelligent children. My point was that the by-line of each episode was (more or less) “remember, you are great mommies”. I think it’s great to support parents by taking […]

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On being a recovering racist

I have had a few cathartic experiences living in this beautiful country of ours. One of them was in 1989 sitting in a room full of fellow students debating issues which to us at the time were very important for our organization, AIESEC. We were gathered from twenty or so campuses around the country in a meeting room at Wits. At a point I looked around the room and realized that everything I had learned about race until that point was a lie.

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Three philosophical accounts of love

In my last post I wrote about Plato’s account of love in his Symposium. But different thinkers have had very diverse conceptions of this phenomenon — and I deliberately do not say “feeling”, because, although love is usually accompanied by certain, fairly intense feelings that people generally locate in their chest or breast area (hence […]

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Why I am an ex-expat, for now

Right, confession time. I haven’t blogged for a while because I have been too busy. Moving countries and starting a new job tends to have that effect. Yes, I am back in Joburg and yes, I am one of the returning expats the Sunday Times wrote about with such undisguised schadenfreude earlier this year. Don’t […]

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Fifa volunteer experience — part 5

Very often, in my experience, it is quite difficult to comment on sports and race issues without appearing to be offensive or over-generalising. It is indeed disheartening when one gets the impression that the black and white people of this country seem to “prefer” to live in different sporting worlds, with a few liberals sprinkled […]