Jen Thorpe
Jen Thorpe

20 000 women, for nothing?

Twenty thousand women marched in 1956 and changed the world. We celebrate them this month. They are certainly worthy.


Some time ago, I went for an interview. When asked by the panel why I wanted to leave the job I was in at the time, I responded that I was tired of the institutional harassment I experience at that workplace. Four cases of sexual harassment in one year, with an institutional response which was more “I’m sorry that happened to you” than “let’s fire those sexist pigs!” I was disappointed, tired of having to fight back against latent and overt patriarchy every day, and wanted something new. Their faces were wide with shock when I was done describing the situation, and I said:

“I hope you look so shocked because it’s different here.”

They laughed nervously. “No,” they said. “Not really.”

Implied: It’s everywhere, get used to it.


20 000 women. Twenty thousand!


I run a feminist website. I have done for four years. It’s all done after hours and in my free time, and lately I haven’t had much of that. I took the site down a while back to work on it and totally forgot about the Facebook page. Today I got a private message on Twitter, alerting me to the fact that there was a lot of sexism happening on the page. I haven’t posted in ages, so these posts weren’t responses to anything. They were just aggressive people, with a bone to pick.

I went to have a look. Reams and reams of violent pornographic images, really violent. Not the type of porn that could be explained as liberated women enjoying consensual sex. Violent rape pornography. Pornography where the women looked afraid. All posted by men. Not one, many men. So many pictures that to block and delete them all would have taken me the remainder of my afternoon. The only option was to delete the page and start from scratch when I relaunch the new site. These people posted these images from their own Facebook accounts, without fear that they would be identified.


Twenty thousand women altogether, defying everything that said they wouldn’t make it. Couldn’t do it. Would be arrested, detained, imprisoned. Despite everything.


Today a colleague told me I should marry a Xhosa husband so that I could learn where my place was and some manners. Does he realise that my place is anywhere? Does he realise how he’s stereotyping Xhosa men as domineering, aggressive? Is the scarier answer to those questions “yes” or “no”?


In 2012/2013, the SAPS reported (for the first and last time in the past five years) their violent crime statistics in a gender-disaggregated way.

– 2 266 women were murdered — one of those Anene Booysen, another Reeva Steenkamp, another Duduzile Dodo

– 29 928 women reported a sexual offence against them

– 44 320 women reported an assault GBH against them

– 83 394 women reported a common assault

That’s 170 908 women. Eight times as many as marched in 1956. And those were the ones brave enough to report.


The Department of Women has the smallest budget of any department in government. The Commission for Gender Equality’s budget forms half of that.


Twenty thousand women marched in 1956. What will it take for that many women, that many people, to march now? When will we stop accepting legislative freedom, and demand substantive equality and freedom? I don’t want to dance, or sing, or go to any press launches this Women’s Day. I just want to mourn.

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    • Phindile

      Women equality is far from being a reality. I do hope that one day we find men and women who are brave enough to fight for women’s rightful place (in the workplace, society and in our homes)…

    • RSA.MommaCyndi

      I do wish that you had reported the violent pornography to the relevant authorities. As much time as it takes, it could save some woman from being their next victim.

      As someone who remembers when there were places that women were not allowed and jobs that women were not allowed to take, things have gotten better. It is a process.

      Unfortunately, you will have to get sisters involved in believing that they are worthy of being treated as equals, before you will be able to teach the men that women deserve to be treated as equal. When a Department of Women stops asking ‘what should we do with women who withdraw charges’ and starts to ask ‘how do we support women who want to implement charges’ – then we may have a glimmer of hope to move forward

    • Educated Guess

      maybe someone should tell me what exactly it is that women want …..

    • Tim Bester

      Why do women pay less tax than men?

    • Phinithi Ntelekoa

      I think compassion fatigue is the worst epidemic to plaque the world than all diseases combined. It’s something I tried to address in my upcoming two part novel, 36 Views of Naval Hill and 36 Views of Brandwag respectively.

      If it’s not asking too much, I’d appreciate your feedback on its first three chapters published as a stand alone short story:

      Let us know as soon as you have the website and FB page ready.

      Great writing.

    • RSA.MommaCyndi

      Pardon? When did I pay less tax? I want a tax rebate!

    • Biloko

      Because even if they do a job equivalent to that of another employee who happens to be male, women will be earning less than that man, and therefore there will be less salary to be taxed on. Unfair and wrong … and still happening in this 21st Century!