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Public moments of intimacy

I’ve been noticing, lately, how many intensely personal moments there are walking around the streets every day. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking about spying on people or stalking anyone; I’m not (despite anyone’s allegations!) the type of person who strolls around stealing people’s saris off beaches (see this blog post for the […]

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Blog party

I’ve been lucky enough to stumble on some rather extraordinary blogs of late, and I thought perhaps it was time to share them … Funnily enough, this whole blogging thing is still pretty new to me — I only discovered it a few months ago, and although at first I thought it was a bit […]

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An invitation to a treasure hunt

Call me frothy, call me whimsical, call me light-hearted (don’t call me nice), I’m sticking to my guns — I think adults don’t play enough. I’m not talking the playfulness of running around in playgrounds, acting like idiots, or enforced-game-time playfulness (“You will have fun!”), but just good old-fashioned playing. A sense of lightness to […]

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The men-women game

I used to think that those who claimed men and women were vastly different just weren’t trying hard enough to understand each other. “I’ve got three older brothers,” I used to boast. “How difficult can men be to understand?” How wrong I was! How naive! How foolish! Men are, truly, a different breed. You want […]

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Traffic is cool

I sat in traffic for about an hour this morning. No big surprise there — most people in Cape Town living outside the City Bowl probably sat in traffic for about an hour this morning. What was unusual about my early-morning traffic experience was that I enjoyed it. Not endured it, but enjoyed it. Allow […]

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Addictive reading

I just finished reading the final Harry Potter. I know, I know, I’m a writer — I should be reading intelligent, “grown-up” fiction. But Jeez Louise, was it exciting! Death Eaters! Dementors! Powerful wands! Body-bind curses! We’re talking serious stuff here. Dangerous stuff. And yes, there were moments during the three-week reading of this monster […]

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Nothing for granted

Okay, I know that blog posts about my diabetes are going to start getting tired soon, and I promise that once I’m back in the real world (later this week) I will have amusing observations about other people (other people! imagine!), but there’s just one more thing I’d like to mention. One of the Big […]

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So here’s what happened …

Some of you may have noticed that instead of my almost-daily blogs I’ve been absent for nearly two weeks. While I’d love to say it’s just laziness, or busy-ness, or a hiatus somewhere sunny and tropical, that is, alas, not the case. It turns out I’m diabetic. Type one (the serious kind). I was diagnosed […]